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July 1, 2026How Robert Found Hope
How Robert Found Hope
For years, Robert lived a life defined by success.
He signed up for the military at 16 in a delayed entry program. He graduated high school on a Friday and was on a train to Fort Dix the following Wednesday.
He served with distinction, traveled Europe, challenged himself at every turn, and left the Army with a sharpened mind, a college acceptance letter, and a determination to build something meaningful. Over the decades that followed, he did exactly that, building a career, raising a daughter, and projecting the image of a man who had it all together.
But life’s unexpected challenges can be humbling, and for Robert, struggles with mental health and unforeseen hardships began to unravel everything he had worked so hard to build. Before long, Robert found himself without a stable home and battling depression.
“I started going back down the rabbit hole with the whole mental health issue… I was going to end my life,” he shared candidly. But an online search for help changed everything. “I decided to go onto the HVAF website and signed up, not thinking anything would come of it anytime soon, and I got a call within a day.”
That moment marked the beginning of his path to recovery, and it wasn’t long before Robert was handed the keys to his own space at HVAF’s Warman property, later transitioning to Manchester Apartments!
At HVAF, Robert experienced what he hadn’t felt in a long time, genuine support. “They provided me with a place, gave me a case manager to talk to, and immediately worked with me,” he explained. “Having someone listen, someone fight for me… it meant everything.”
But housing was just the beginning. HVAF introduced Robert to life-changing resources, like mental health support programs, including getting Robert into art therapy, something he credits as a huge benefit to him and his mental health
“I lost so much of my identity, but here, I got to reclaim my peace,” Robert recalls.
In Art therapy, Robert learned to process his thoughts and emotions creatively, and began to see positive results in his mental health.
“The mask making project was especially meaningful,” Robert explained, describing how he designed a mask to symbolize the contrast between how the world saw him and how he saw himself. The project helped him examine parts of his life he had been hiding, offering new perspectives and healing opportunities.
Robert’s transformation also led to renewed relationships with his loved ones. After staying in Manchester Apartments for a few months, Robert was able to move into his own apartment and reunited with his daughter under one roof. “The VA told me I would need live-in care when I moved in here, so my daughter moved in with me to help me transition to living back on my own. And what a blessing, it was the first time we had lived together since she was a baby!”
Today, Robert lives in a quiet apartment where peace and purpose have replaced the turmoil that once dominated his life. Reflecting on his growth, he credits HVAF for giving him the tools to reclaim his future.
“HVAF kept me alive. They need to stay around to continue to help veterans in any way they can. If you can donate to assist and help, that is greatly appreciated.”
For those wondering if their contributions truly make an impact, Robert’s story is your answer. Thanks to YOU, veterans like Robert are finding safety, stability, and the ability to rebuild their lives, one step at a time.
Together, we can continue to provide hope, dignity, and healing for those who have sacrificed so much.